Hi Briana,
Great topic. I'm actively trying to utilize this skill in the group I started, which is gaining more traction, and therefore more opinions! I have two members that couldn't be further apart on the political spectrum. However, I tread lightly and toe the line, at least until I can get these people in a room together, since face-to-face discussions are more effective than online bickering. It is challenging for me, as I'm partial to one's political identity compared to the other, but I founded the group as a nonpartisan effort to engage the community around science. I often have had to remove one individual's posts as they were blatantly political and accusatory - even though I agree - because the other member reached out to me with their frustrated emotions.
We cannot start a successful conversation or engage a person across any kind of divide while pointing a finger at what they believe in. This requires empathy to truly understand. However, to understand something is not enough - we must be able deliver empathy in the execution of our dialogue and decision-making. For me, that amounted to removing posts in our online group and providing justification, and also defending the same individual's posts after evaluating them as objectively as possible.
Additionally, the question of "what is science?" comes up: for some, it translates specifically to physics and chemistry, topics that are generally easier to measure due to their mathematics; for me, I have a better background in biomedical sciences, where measurements depend more on statistics and reading less-understood instruments. Some members are more interested in public health, which is so politically wrapped up right now it's the most difficult for those people to remain nonpartisan. Bringing all these different ideas and views together requires tact, empathy and respect for each other as people.
Will there be a recording available? I won't be able to attend live.
Best,
Doug
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Douglas Job
Flemington NJ
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